Course curriculum
We continue our series "Exploring Shame" with a look at the way shame triggers and induces both our drives and our dysfunction. Behind the success of a thrusting executive or the downcast expression of a shrinking non-achiever, we can often find the same overwhelming shadow of shame. William Ayot and Juliet Grayson explore what shame can activate – addiction, workaholism violence, perfectionism, or anti-social behavior.
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Exploring Shame - Episode 2: The Engine of Shame in short segments. 1 hour 16 mins total
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Please read this before moving on to the next part.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 1: Shame brings clients to therapy but many therapists don’t work with it. 8 minutes.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 2: Bringing shame into the light. Shame from our families of origin. 7 minutes.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 3: Intentional shaming. Shame & education. Family labels. Lack of response & covert shaming. Needs not met. 8 minutes.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 4: Sources of Shame. 10 minutes.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 5: Further sources of shame.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 6: Stuckness. Suicide. Naming goodness. The consequences of shame. 6 minutes.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 7: Shame drives anger & addictions. The squirrel cage. 7 minutes.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 8: Further consequences. Compass of shame. 10 minutes.
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Shame Episode 2 Part 9: Pre-verbal shame. Shame buckets. Lack of awareness & denial of shame. Be kind to yourself.
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This is the audio version of The Engine of Shame: Episode 2 of Exploring Shame 1 hour 16 minutes
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This is the audio version of The Engine of Shame: Episode 2 of Exploring Shame 1 hour 15 minutes
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This is the same video (Engine of Shame) in one unbroken piece for those who prefer to watch 1 hr 15 mins in one go
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The Engine of Shame Complete Video
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Juliet Grayson & William Ayot
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£10.00Shame 3: Shame, Trauma & Abuse: 80 mins
Our third exploration will focus on the emotional consequences of trauma and abuse. Our relationship to shame can grow out of a single traumatic event, or decades of recurring slights and cruelties. We follow many streams from initiating wounds to internalised self-shaming. Exploring shyness and self-criticism on the one hand, and overt self harm and self-destruction on the other, we shine a light on ways to self-compassion and wholeness. This is a workshop for both therapists AND for members of the general public.