Contents

    1. Please read this before beginning the talk

    2. Part one: Definitions; research by Bessel van der Kolk; Post traumatic stress disorder; Complex post traumatic stress disorder; Developmental trauma disorder; Adverse childhood experiences; the impact of childhood trauma; the prevalence of trauma.

    3. Part two: Trauma in early childhood; somatic trauma & body work; The Pesso Boyden System Psychomotor; toxic shame; the feeling of abandonment - physically present but emotionally absent; the impact of gaslighting; children from dysfunctional families.

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    4. Part three: A list of different types of trauma; William’s experience of trauma; The Angel of the Aftershock by William Ayot.

    5. Part four: Continuation of the list; shame and war; poverty and trauma; inherited and historical trauma; trauma as part of the human condition.

    6. Part five: Intergenerational trauma; the neurochemical connection to our grandmothers, and prenatal trauma; collective trauma; Solitary by William Ayot.

    7. Part six: Conversations around shame; The Pesso Boyden System; the traumatised becoming perpetrators; identification with the aggressor; learned helplessness; a list of submit responses.

    8. Part seven: An experience learning to grieve in a Pesso Boyden session; shame freezing other emotions; letting go of carrying another’s baggage; another example from a Pesso Boyden session; Cut Grass and Nicotine by William Ayot.

    9. Part eight : Q&A; helping the traumatised client learn to communicate; other poets to explore; ritual & intergenerational trauma; the undamaged self beneath the trauma survivor; Things to Carry with You as You Leave the Ruins by William Ayot.

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    1. Resources: The poems William shared and a link to purchase his collections; links to other Shame talks, the talks mentioned in this episode, workshops, relevant websites and our mailing list; definitions; information on PTSD, CPTSD, DTD, and ACEs.

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About this course

  • £10.00
  • 80 mins
  • Downloadable audio
  • CPD certificate

Speakers

Juliet Grayson has worked as a psychotherapist since 1991. She specialises in working with couples and sexual problems. As a psychotherapist she is UKCP registered, NLPtCA accredited, and a PBSP accredited Trainer.

William Ayot is an award-winning poet, author, teacher and ritualist. Over three decades he has hosted and led, men’s and mixed personal development events and rites of passage. He uses poetry and the arts to teach leadership in boardrooms and business schools around the world, currently teaching on the Advanced Management Programme at INSEAD. William designs and leads bespoke rituals for individuals, and is available for one-to-one coaching online.

Juliet Grayson and William Ayot

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